TRUST!

[#nolongervictimsadmin]

Ok so this all started when I realize I am a terrible judge of character. The people I think I can't trust are the ones that actually come through. Where the people I trust seem to be a lie!
The question is how do you know what to trust or what not to trust? Because even for the simplest of things I have issues knowing what to trust or believe!

[me]

Here's how I feel about trust. I think most of the people who commit these crimes have a predator personality. Whether you trust them or not they are waiting for that in, waiting for an opportunity to manipulate a situation to trap you. Even if you're the most careful person it can happen, it happened to me, and I haven't trusted the majority of people in years, and he was one that I didn't trust. Mine happened at work by a superior, someone that I avoided intentionally because of a weird vibe he gave off. I'm just saying that they can set you up and there's really not much you can do to prevent it sometimes. But yes, my trust issues have only gotten worse.

As far as what not to trust, I think you almost have to test anyone that you're considering letting close to you. See if they come through for you. If they think you're drunk how do they act around you? I'm not saying get drunk around them, I'm saying lead them to believe you're drunker to see how they behave. Sadly you almost have to manipulate them to see how they will treat you and whether or not you can really trust them.